So to sum up, there are two men: Eddie, just-a-friend, whom I've met up with a couple of times lately and from I never got seduction vibes until recently (I think). And then there is George, a friend (more like acquaintance) of Eddie's with whom I have already exchanged more than just seduction vibes.. Am a bit confused around what is going on with both of these projects.
So, I had a master plan: Thursday night I was supposed to see Eddie (for casual drinks), and Saturday night George (for a 2nd date). The plan was to work out on Thursday if there was something going on between Eddie and I, so that I could make a decision before Saturday on what to do with George.
Unfortunately, Thursday I did not manage to catch up with Eddie properly for logistics reasons. He did invite me to join his group of friends at a party (positive sign), but I could not make it because I was at another party and I have not heard from since (negative sign).
I did however end up meeting with George last night. I've had a confirmation of my initial instinct that he is not really the long term sort of material, but in the meantime it's quite fun to have a little side project. And I don't have the feeling of leading anyone astray as he seems to have the same view and to be someone looking more for snacks than main courses at the moment..